In Loving Memory of Isabelle M. Smaroff
December 18, 1938 – October 30, 2025
Valparaiso, Indiana
It is with deep love and sorrow that we share the passing of Isabelle M. Smaroff at 86 – cherished mother and grandmother, devoted friend and neighbor, and respected pillar of Valparaiso. Isabelle departed this life peacefully, leaving behind a legacy of generosity, warmth, and steadfast commitment to her family, friends, and community. Her life was defined by compassionate service to others, and she was treasured for her kind heart and strong faith.
Born on December 18, 1938, in Bentleyville, Pennsylvania, Isabelle grew up surrounded by friends and her mother’s Italian cooking. She was crowned May Queen in 1956, a testament to her vibrant spirit, and soon after, she married her high school sweetheart, Robert “Bob”. Their move to Valparaiso marked the start of a new chapter, where they raised their family and became deeply involved in the community. Isabelle held several roles as Executive Assistant and Director of Hospital Volunteers at Porter Memorial, where her leadership and kindness were evident to all.
A tireless volunteer, Isabelle served as a board member for Kiwanis and the VNA Foundation, and was an active participant in St. Paul Catholic Church and numerous community initiatives. She dedicated her time and energy to uplifting others, always ready to lend a helping hand. Isabelle was known for her thoughtful care packages and legendary open-door hospitality – no one ever left her home without eating something first and usually taking something special with them. Her kindness touched all who met her, making every guest feel truly at home.
Isabelle was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 43 years, Bob Smaroff, who passed away 26 years ago. She is lovingly remembered by her daughter, Desirée; her son, Duke and his wife Carrie; and her grandchildren: Nick, Robert, Tiffany, and Anthony (Desirée); and Zach, Ben, and Kate (Duke). Her grandchildren were the light of her life, and she treasured every moment spent with them.
A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Paul Catholic Church 1855 Harrison Blvd., Valparaiso on November 29, 2025 at 10:00 AM with visitation beginning at 9:30 AM. Interment of ashes will follow at Graceland Cemetery, Valparaiso. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to The Kiwanis Foundation of Valparaiso, PO Box 1661; Valparaiso, IN 46384 or online by PayPal to Valparaiso Kiwanis Foundation, Inc., honoring Isabelle’s lifelong dedication to service and kindness.
Isabelle’s spirit of generosity and unwavering love for family and friends will live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing her. May her memory be a blessing to all.
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Dear Duke, Carrie, Zach, Ben and Kate, We are sad to hear about the loss of your mom/mother-in-law/grandma. We know that words cannot ease the pain, and we hope you find some comfort in the cherished memories you have of her and the incredible legacy she leaves behind. Our thought and prayers are with your family, -Barb and Dave Fletcher
My sympathies to you and all the families. You are in my thoughts and prayers. -Ruth Cavanaugh
My condolences to all of the family. Isabelle was the kindest person anywhere. Her care packages will also be missed. May she Rest in Peace. She will be remembered! -Jon & Kathy Groth
What a special lady; always think and (cooking) for others! God speed. -Michele Murphy Wise
Our condolences to the family and friends. Isabelle had a heart of gold. I personally meet Isabelle when she first moved into. Pepper cove subdivision. She became one of the best neighbors in our neighborhood. We all loved her. She was very loving and kind to everyone that knew her. I pray God gives her a set of wings because she was a loving and a caring woman. She will be deeply missed by all. God bless her. -Terry Meece
Is was a true blessing to all...her listening ear, her caring heart, her vast generosity... The love of children and grands was always a wonderful topic of conversation.. so proud of you all...Missing a dear friend.. -Mary Ann Claesgens
We were blessed to know her as a friend and neighbor. she was a delight to visit. she was a true blessing to all who knew her. she will be missed. she loved her family and furry children so much. -Joe and Wilma Wheele
According to our mother, Josephine Scicchitano Sommariva, Isabelle was the most adorable, well behaved little girl who grew up to be a faithful wife, mother and devoted daughter to her parents & her Aunt Jo. We often were compared to Isabelle in terms such as “When you girls grow up, I hope you’re just like Isabelle” Isabelle certainly lived a life of honor and respect for and by others. Her faith was strong. Truly a woman to emulate. In Condolences, -Patricia Sommariva Anderson and Arlene Sommariva Dailey
My sincerest sympathies to the Smaroff family. Isabelle was a very sweet lady and a devoted and generous Kiwanian. Isabelle and I attended a puppy training class together at Vale Park Veterinary Hospital many, many years ago. We shared the trials and tribulations of raising a pup. I especially enjoyed getting to know her better outside of Kiwanis. Isabelle, you will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Rest in Peace, Isabelle. -Joann Tomasic
Isabelle, words can’t express how much we miss your tender loving smile and the care you had!!! You are beautiful inside and out! You were our 2nd mom, so generous and loving!!! No one will take your place!!!! You have a beautiful family that loved you so much! And I could tell, family meant all to you!! You showed that love in return!!! I’m so happy I met your family!!! Thoughts and prayers, Love and miss you dearly! -Kathy Horvat
Duke, We are saddened to hear of the passing of your mom. I have many great memories from when we were kids and up through college. I am happy to have the opportunity to have some great times around her and your family growing up. Jenn and I extend our deepest sympathy for your family. Hoping life has been good to you. -Todd Justak
