Pamela Wesolowski, 77 of Valparaiso, passed away Monday, August 26, 2024. She was born October 22, 1946, in Hammond, IN to the late Joseph and Elinor (Kozlowski) Ostapchuk. Pam was a loving and devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, who delighted in spending time with her beloved grandchildren. She especially enjoyed cooking for her family and taking them on trips to the beach. Pam will be remembered for her positive and bubbly personality, and her selfless nature. Pam will be lovingly remembered and dearly missed by all who knew her.
On May 1, 1965, in Hammond, IN, Pam married the love of her life, Clemens “Wes” Wesolowski, who survives, along with children: Denise (Pete) Amanatidis of Schererville, Diane (Fred) Behrens of Crown Point, Dawn Decanter of Hobart, Deena (Gary) Grimler of Crown Point, Derek (Elizabeth) Wesolowski of Nolensville, TN, and David Wesolowski of Northville, MI; grandchildren: Stavros Amanatidis, Anastasia Amanatidis, Megan (Max) Laughlin, Lauren Behrens, Kaitlin (Michael Poulos) Behrens, Nathan Behrens, Miranda Decanter, Wyatt Decanter, Ethan Decanter, Sarah Grimler, Samuel Grimler, Sawyer Grimler, Simon Grimler, Scott Grimler, Summer Grimler, Sullivan Grimler, Sheri Grimler, Olivia Wesolowski, and Grant Wesolowski; siblings: Joseph Ostapchuk and Charlene (Rich) Opiola; and twin sister, Pat Rotheker. She was preceded in death by her sister, Camille Engle.
A visitation will be held on Thursday, August 29, 2024, from 12:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at Moeller Funeral Home, 104 Roosevelt Road, Valparaiso, with a memorial service beginning at 3:00 p.m.
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I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of Pam. She was such a wonderful person with a huge, loving family, and she lived an amazing life filled with love and kindness. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Hugs to all, -Shannon Ahner
My thoughts and prayers and peace for you Wes, and family. She's in heaven looking down on her family. -Sandra Sain
So sorry to hear about your loss. Have many memories with her and your family. Will keep you in my prayers. -Nancy Wiltjer (Eldridge)
Your light touched so many lives, Aunt Pam. We will forever remember your laughter, your stories, and the love you gave so freely. Though you are no longer with us, your spirit will live on in our hearts. Rest peacefully. -Redmond Family (Deirdra)
Our deepest condolences to Wes and the entire Wesolowski family for your loss of your dearest Pamela. From all of us in your racing family at NSS Inc. May she rest in eternal peace... -Richard Berlisk
GOD called Pamela HOME, but please know that her strong and tough LOVE remains with each of us to feel every day until we join her and all our many LOVED FAMILY in GOD*** -Charlene & Rich Opiola
Our deepest condolences to all the family. We were so sorry to hear of her passing. We are so glad we got to meet Pam and her family, through her sister Pat. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in your family and friends during this time. Your mom, grandmother, and sister was a wonderful lady. -Rich & Alice Butrym
We are deeply sorry to hear about the passing of your wonderful mother. She will be warmly remembered and missed always. You're in our hearts. Love, -The Warren Family
